#TLDR call me whatever. I'm fag.

[cosmossystem]

also btw i had a discovery recently

[jaqiqi-blog]

First of all, Happy pride month!

Secondly, Slight vent cause I never really talk about it to anybody, and I just gotta vent, idk. Tldr at the bottom if you just want the lil kinda happy message, but happy pride month to all y'all that have dealt with or are still dealing with people like this like I am.

I didn't plan on telling my parents I was trans until I was moved away and safe from them. Unfortunately, my mom backed me into a conversational corner that had me out no matter what I did, so I left that night and have been living with my amazing sister and her family for the past months while my mom (and grandma after she told her) spread the gossip to as much of the rest of the family they possibly can.. Its fucked y'know cause my parents always tried to feed me and my brother that bullshit of 'you can do whatever, we dont care' except for denying my sister is bi cause she married a man, or calling trans people wrong, or getting upset if someone makes a gay joke regarding me or my brother, or calling us 'queer' or 'fag' as an insult, or telling me to stop doing certain things because it was feminine throughout my whole life. I apparently WALKED too feminine when I was younger. I was like 10. I also was told not to dance to some songs, not play with dolls, not wear my flare pants that I wear and love, not dye my hair red, which it currently is. Etc, etc.

But hey, it's getting better soon. This month, I'm finally moving out with my cousin at a house we've secured, and it's so relieving to finally be almost done with my parents. Ig pride month is always gonna be a lil extra special to me cause this'll always be the month I'm actually free :)

But uh yeah, sorry. I needed to get some of this shit out and I don't want to just bug people with it y'know? I guess I am doing that right now, but yall don't have an obligation to read whatever I write so it's less.. demanding I guess? Lol

Sorry for the wall of text on your feed if you sat through and read this

TLDR: If you got shitty lgbtq-phobic people in your life, you can and will get outta there eventually. One way or another <3

[fiapple]

so, i guess i gotta make a new pinned post, huh?

hi, my name is grey. i’m a mentally-ill, 21 year old, white bi² living on stolen Turtle Island land, in what is most commonly known as canada.

i like to read, though i'm regularly too depressed to be able to, and i often blog about other media i'm into such as shows and movies (on this site? how atypical./s)

please note that i often reclaim slurs specific to various groups within the lgbt+ commuinity into which i personally fall. this includes fag(got), dyke, and queer. if this makes you uncomfortable that's understandable. while i will try to tag, i still suggest blacklisting the words for your own sake. i have a tendency to be forgetful.

in addition, because i’ve noticed a trend where multigender people are treated as whatever binary gender is most convenient to an outside observer, i’d prefer not to be gendered as anything other than bigender-bisexual/bisexual-gender/genderbi and/or nonbinary if i don’t know you.

tldr: don't call me a man or woman exclusively if we aren't at the very least mutuals.

finally, standard DNI/DNF criteria applies (which, i apparently have to clarify, is inclusive of those who believe in transandrophobia/transmisandry.) , i might make a caard or something with more specifc-to-me stuff at some point.

oh & this blog is 19+ because i am horrible at tagging but also a grown-up.

in the mean time, if i block you just be like... normal about it? thanks.

lastly, as i've said i am multigender, & for me that’s inclusive of manhood, so men dni blogs this might not be the place for you? like, you can follow me but idk why you would?

anyway, please like this post if you've read this far to let me know you made it! thank you!